Even though the world is spherical, you have heard that the creatures there are diverse, every creature on earth is diverse in appearance and inner thoughts and desires.
Do you know you can’t please a man with different thoughts, desires, feelings, and hopes? You will surely agree that it is impossible to please the ones we love all the time, to be attentive to all their requests, and to remember everything that makes them happy.
You can only please some of the time. You will only sometimes be able to satisfy their tastes and desires. Let’s look at twenty reasons why you can’t always please every person.
01. Disparity of personal needs.
Did you know that if you take a hundred living things on earth, their needs are a function? In general, the creatures’ needs in the world are different; the way they live and what they expect is different, and it is more difficult than you think to please people with heterogeneous needs. Need help to work.
They will be completely different according to their need and how they are happy. As their needs diverge, the happiness they seek also diverges. Let me give you a simple example; you can make a small child happy by giving him a toy. But the needs of a teenager are quite different. You can make everyone happy only by giving him what he wants.
02 . Different preferences.
People have different opinions and preferences, varying from one person to another. People’s tastes and the way they are happy with such tastes will also vary. The opinions and preferences of people living in the world will change according to what they expect from each other.
Let me give you a simple example, if you ask two young children what kind of ice cream they like, they will have different opinions. You cannot please everyone, People have different preferences, and it won’t be easy for you to please everyone.
03. Limited resources.
There may need to be more resource time to meet everyone’s needs. Do we have enough time to please everyone around us? So how do you find time to please everyone? You can’t spend all your time trying to please people, can you? You need help finding resources to please every person.
I will give a simple example. You want to make your best friend happy on his birthday, but you need more money to give him a valuable gift, and when you don’t have that much money, you have to give him a less valuable gift.
In this situation, you can only please some because you will have to miss such opportunities, given your limited resources. Because of this, you will not be able to please everyone.
04. Conflicting expectations.
Individuals’ expectations may conflict with each other. If five people are taken, their expectations will be five ways. One person’s expectations will be completely different from another person. Due to the conflict of individual expectations, it will be difficult for you to please them.
As the individual’s expectations differ, how they will be happy will differ. Imagine that one of your brothers wants a mobile phone for his birthday, but your sister wants a dress she likes. To please them, you have to do things that match their expectations. Your brother has different desires. Then it will be challenging to please them. So you can only please some.
05. Changing Circumstances.
Preferences and needs can change with time. Do you know that every person living in the world changes in the blink of an eye? Their needs will differ when a person takes his infancy, childhood, youth, and old age. As a child enters adolescence, their needs can change dramatically. An average job seeker wants to get a promotion from the job and live a higher life than the present one. That’s why you can’t please people because their needs are different.
06. Complexity.
There is a complex range of desires and needs to please everyone. Did you know that the individual is becoming more complicated by clashing with everyday life? You will find it challenging to please them in the face of complex human behavior. Due to the complexity of people’s lives, pleasing them will be very complicated. You’d think that as people become more complex, so do their desires and needs.
They are not happy with simple things. I will give you a simple example; you will not be able to make your best friend happy by smiling or talking to him who has practiced the habits of complexity because you must use a strategy that fits your loved one’s complicated life. It will be difficult for you to do complicated things to please everyone, so you cannot please everyone.
07. Requirement of deadlines.
It may take more time than is available to please everyone. Different people living in the world become happy with time. Did you know you have to spend time making your friends and girlfriends happy? It may only be possible to make someone happy in a short period.
Some people prefer to be happy for a long time. You want to please ten of your closest friends on the same day. But your friends are far away.
In this case, you face a time problem because you need more time in the 24 hours of the day. Imagine that one day you attend a birthday party of your friend. But if you find it difficult to stay at the place for a long time, your friend wants to hold you until the end of the birthday party.
In this case, you need time to please him. Because your friend will be happy only if you stay there, you can only please some people due to time constraints.
08. Diversity of backgrounds.
People come from different cultural, educational, and socioeconomic backgrounds that influence their well-being. People belonging to different cultures are happy in a way that is specific to that culture. When we take several people of different educational levels, their needs, likes, and dislikes are contradictory. Even if a less educated person is happy with a small thing, an educated person will not be happy like that.
Different people who live have always come to the fore from different backgrounds. They will change how they are happy according to their conflicting background.
Whether you can please several people from conflicting backgrounds at the same time or not is the reason for the change in how people are happy, depending on the background. Imagine how a person from a very low-income family and a person from a rich family is happy at a friend’s meeting, at a wedding ceremony, or at the same time. That is why you cannot please everyone.
09. Communication barriers.
Misunderstandings caused by language communication barriers can hinder all efforts to please. Even in the face of communication barriers and weaknesses, there is no ability to please people. You can only please some people due to poor communication skills. What if what we say is difficult for someone else to understand? A breakdown in communication kills happiness. You can please some people when you have communication barriers.
10. Unpredictability.
What makes one person happy may not make them happy tomorrow. Did you know that human behavior is always unpredictable? Individual behavior is unpredictable from moment to moment. A happy person eating food cooked at home one day will expect to eat outside the house tomorrow. From day to day, how they are happy will be quite different. Imagine that you bring your little child a doll one day, and she is very happy.
But next month, when you bring another doll, she will not be as happy as before. Because the way people are happy will change daily and faster than in the blink of an eye. You will not be able to make every person happy in the face of unpredictable human behavior.
11. Personal development.
As people grow and evolve, their preferences and needs change. Everyone is constantly changing. The child born from the mother’s womb will change every day. As the person evolves, their interest and needs will also change during this period.
For example, your toddler’s needs and interests as a child will change when he becomes young, and the way he enjoys them will also change. As people grow, their happiness varies, and you cannot please everyone.
12. Emotional complexity.
People have a wide range of emotions, and meeting everyone’s emotional needs is difficult. Different people have different emotional states. Because of their emotional state’s complexity, they will change how they are happy. Those emotions have no boundaries. Because of this, you will have to go to great lengths to please him.
You will not be able to please them because of the emotional changes of each person. There are different emotions that the person expects, such as love, intimacy, satisfaction, fun, etc.
Let me give you a simple example when a person is very sad, and you have to act to press that emotional speed. You have to be strategic to alleviate that sadness and make him happy.
Think about what you can do according to people’s emotional speed complexity. Due to the diversity of people, their emotions are different, and they are as complex as that. You cannot please them to match each person’s emotional speed, so you will not be able to please every person.
13. Personal Circumstances.
Personal circumstances and experiences shape people’s preferences and challenge them to please everyone. People living in the world have different personal circumstances and thus will be unique in what makes them happy. A teacher, a police officer, or a doctor are happy according to their circumstances.
You cannot please a person holding a high position the way you please an ordinary person because they are often different depending on the personal situation.
You cannot please people in different personal situations in the same way. You will have to use different methods for that. Can you please a close friend or neighbor the way you please your child? That is because they carry different personal statuses, so you can only please some.
14. Emotional attachments.
People can be emotionally attached to certain outcomes, and it becomes challenging to please them if their expectations are unmet. Humans living in the world have different emotional attachments, and to please them, you will have to use tactics that match those emotional states.
It will happen to you. Is it possible? Think about it, and you will realize it is difficult. You think like this. Can you please a child who is in love with his mother when he is separated? How do you please?
Emotional attachments are diverse and will vary from person to person. If you can’t meet a person’s expectations, he will not be happy at all. If someone invites you to dinner, will he be happy if you can’t go? No, right? How do you make a person who is looking for love happy? Change, and it will be challenging for you. In the face of emotional attachments, you cannot please everyone.
15. How to be happy is relative.
Living beings are diverse, and they like diversity in their happiness. Individuals will differ in how they are happy. Imagine that when it rains, one of the small children in that place is happy to get wet in the rain, and And another child is happy to keep a cardboard boat floating in the water. People’s ways of happiness are relative to them, and you will have to please them relatively. So you can only please some.
16. Finding different ways.
People living in the world need to appreciate living more consistently and always like to try different ways. Who wants to be happy in the same way every day? Have you seen such a person? No, right? A person who goes to watch a movie with his boyfriend or girlfriend does not expect the same on another day.
Can you please people who constantly want change? You will understand that it is a very difficult task. Many people prefer to eat different food for three morning, afternoon, and night meals. They like to make different changes.
They like to make a change even in the food they eat. Because seeing is expected, you can only sometimes please people who constantly expect change.
17. Appreciation of modernity.
Not only in the world but also the man living in the world is becoming modern day by day. The person who appreciates modernity will embrace it. As the world becomes modern, it will be a dream for the people living there to live a simple life. People will love to enjoy modern fashion and consumer goods day by day.
It will be challenging to please a person who appreciates modernity. They are happy in modernity. They are unhappy with all clothes, and you cannot please the man who follows these kinds of methods, who expect to turn to modern fashions.
18. No matter what you do, people will always talk.
It is human nature to always talk for no reason. We talk about others in an attempt to make ourselves feel better. Gossip is one of the worst ways to pass the time. Can you please people who always talk for no reason? Think about it. You will realize that it is a difficult task.
If you regularly participate in gossip, you will fill your life with negativity. When you live with negative thoughts, you find it difficult to rise above the status quo.
You can only do a little to please people considering that people always talk for no reason. No matter what you do, they will always find something to talk about us. Even if you make them happy, it will also be a problem for them sometimes. In such situations, you will not be able to make everyone happy.
19. Right and wrong can often be subjective.
Right and wrong will be interpreted subjectively from person to person, depending on how they look at something. What is right in one person’s mind may be wrong in another person’s mind. Thinking about whether you can please others when right or wrong is subjective.
Many things are considered subjective. There is no set way to do everything in life the right way all the time, so people will have different ideas about how to approach something,
and if you don’t do it their way, how do you expect to please them and everyone else? You can’t please everyone when right and wrong are subjective.
20. Everyone always has an opinion.
No matter what you do or how hard you try to do something, people have an opinion about you. Often it is a negative opinion. No matter what they do, they look at you with contempt and disdain and cannot please people.
You cannot stop them from talking and gossiping about you behind your face or even in front of your face. And it would be best if you didn’t bother trying. Suppose you can make people like this happy.
People who are steeped in negativity will never change their thoughts and minds. Nothing you will ever do will make them happy. It is impossible.
Conclusion.
So why bother trying? They will have an opinion about how you live your life. No matter what you do, some people’s opinions will stay the same, and you will find it hard to please them. Therefore, you will only be able to please some. You can only please some of the time.
One chooses to please another person because it makes them happy. It is a choice, not an obligation. On the other hand, pleasing someone for fear of not being loved or appearing selfish will create expectations and guilt on both sides.
Think if you are doing it from the heart. Realize that you cannot please others all the time. That thing. Because no one can do it, even if it is done, it is always something that cannot be done. How happy they are will vary from person to person. So can you please other people in these situations? Individual needs are different, and how their needs are met will vary. Think if it is possible to please the man with such oddities. Because of this, it is only a dream for you always to please others.
