My experiences led me to live. I just wanted a simple life that I wanted. First, I did not get satisfaction from my work and started spending my time and effort on another purpose.
There needed to be more understanding of the simple life. At first, I worked towards achieving the desired goals, and then I wanted more from them, and then I started focusing on many other goals and working towards achieving them.
The question is whether the simple life I wanted to be existed. I reflected on what I had done wrong, where I couldn’t achieve the I just wanted a simple life.
When I study, for example, I take an exam, but if I do well in it, I don’t get the satisfaction I want. I then turned my attention to another purpose and had to complete it. It should be mentioned here that I could never achieve the desired happiness through it.
All matters of life are like a never-ending competition, a never-ending struggle to achieve all things and work towards their attainment. But it became clear to me that I did not get the desired happiness or comfort through that when I looked back on the past. Today, I can’t remember the satisfaction I got from it, except for working to make it successful by paying attention to various matters in life.
From childhood, I was used to achieving certain things, I wanted, but I had no idea that happiness would come from achieving them. In that way, I only thought about one thing about all the activities I was doing. But when I reached middle age, I realized that all the work I had done was wrong with my various decisions over time.
There is a problem today as to whether I truly enjoy what I have done. I finally realized that the things I want to achieve at different times, even if there is a momentary feeling, are not forever.
There are a few other mistakes I made. I couldn’t find I just wanted a simple life Today I realize that I could not achieve the simple life I wanted due to my mistakes. A mistake I have made is that I think about it differently before I do something. In many cases, if there is something that I have to do, I overthink it and use it to make it successful.
But through that, the relevant tasks are not successful to the expected extent. In many cases, I thought more than expected about all the work I had to do and used various tricks to do it successfully.
It is clear today that it was impossible to carry out the relevant tasks after assuming them before doing them. When I enjoy something, I think about it more and enjoy it, and beyond that, there are times when the related happiness turns into sadness.
For example
In some cases, when I felt that I would get money in some way before, I thought about it and generated various thoughts about it, being happy about it and overthinking the things to be done in the future. I realized here that no matter what kind of event in my life, I have been thinking about it too much, and I have not been able to do many things successfully.
I am realizing the mistakes I have made in the past and working towards that. I just wanted a simple life.
The simple thing I realized is that overthinking everything I need to do is not doing them. And another thing that I have realized is that I focus on a particular thing that I am doing and get pleasure from that thing and focus on doing it.
Also, try to avoid overthinking about something that is being done There, one should focus only on the work for that moment. The past is over. The future has not dawned. Due to that, it should focus only on the work being done at the present moment.
And even if I get some favorable or happy news at this moment through something I am doing, I have decided not to get excited. The main reason for this is that during this moment, anyone can have sad or happy thoughts. But at that moment, we must work to enjoy it in moderation.
Although we may be happy at this moment, the matter may turn to sadness in a few minutes. Otherwise, even if you are 100% certain that I will get something now, think about it neutrally. The reason is that even your life can be lost in the next moment.
Even after the completion of the relevant matter, instead of thinking about it entirely and being excited with happiness, past experiences led us to work to have a mediating mind about it. I just wanted a simple life.
I thought to make all matters happy in that moment and through that to enjoy that moment. Past experiences made it clear that nothing is permanent in the world of impermanence, and I realized that we have to experience both good and bad things in the present.
I realized firsthand that the simple life I wanted was within me. Many people are looking for their happiness, if not from someone else, or if not, from some other material thing, they are determined to get it. But what you need to do is find yourself.
Especially with past experiences, I got an understanding of who I am and was able to find the person I truly am through past events. Another thing I could understand here is that not many things are necessary for me to live a simple life. I was able to be happy by thinking that I don’t need a lot of things to be happy and what is there.
I could find what I just wanted a simple life. First and foremost, I was happy to wake up healthy in the morning after waking up. Then I arranged to pay attention to all the matters individually.
When I wash my face and brush my teeth in the morning, I try to understand that I am brushing my teeth at that moment without thinking about the work expected to be done that day. I realized that most of the time, my work was getting distracted.
At that time, thinking about what I had to do, I decided to turn my attention to it. In this way, all the tasks I do in my life today are done by thinking only about what needs to be done at that time.
In the past, I tried to find happiness in life through complex things. But nowadays, I consider exposure to the morning sun a significant achievement in life and have started enjoying it.
On a rainy day, one does not forget to be thankful for the rain bestowed by nature, think about it, and be truly happy and thankful to nature for that. I don’t forget to think about my loved ones around me and think about how they strengthen and light up my life and be happy and grateful for that.
When I have the opportunity to spend my free time, I also use the opportunity to spend some time in nature, exposing myself to nature. I began to think of inhaling the fragrance of a flower as a genuinely blessed thing in life and to think of it and be truly happy. Whenever I could help many people, I always tried to be grateful for those opportunities and to help others whenever possible.
I realized that happiness flows into my life like never before. I found that I just wanted a simple life. Through past experiences, I realized I could find myself and happiness by enjoying life through simple and complicated things. Through that, I realized a fundamental change in my life.
Conclusion
Through my experiences, I found the person I truly am and realized that happiness in life is not far away and lies within me. Through that, I could found I just wanted a simple life I ask that you also understand who you are through my experiences and truly understand the person you are and create the opportunities you need to live your life, enjoy it, and live the simple life you want.